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This feels like how we should be living (lemmy.world)

submitted 3 months ago by The_Picard_Maneuver to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

While I agree, I understand their sentiment.

Nobody deserves a response.

I tend to surround myself with people who are chill, and immediately drop off anyone who responds/reacts quickly.

I met a person at a meetup and connected. The next day, I had 3 text responses with small talk. Like "Hey what's up?" "What's your day like?" "How is work?" Fuck that, chill. they're a perfect candidate for this.

I accidentally logged on Facebook to fix a permission and almost instantly, I get bombarded with messages that I log off. Apparently me avoiding a message was so hostile that one of them proceeded to call me asking why Im ignoring them. Like damn, chill. I'll message you when I'm ready.

[–] BothsidesistFraud 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I am not following. At work you are hired in part to reply to messages (i.e. communicate with your bosses and coworkers)

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

No I'm hired to do a job effectively, and that means telling people to leave me alone.

[–] pingveno 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

No, you are part of an organization. Part of that is communication.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 months ago

Wow - You really jobsplained my own job to me.