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[–] 0laura 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

The towel thing is very relatable, they gave me one after I got my first pacemaker. I was coughing a lot after the surgery and it was horrible, every time I coughed it hurt so much. I'm lucky that I've never been asked to give up my seat in a train, because I'm not sure if I'd have the confidence to say no.

[–] GabrielBell12fi 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Having had this condition since I was born, confidence isn't a problem at this point. If I think I need to stay seated, I just look them in the eye and say "no".

The only time I am willing to not do this (willing not do this? You get the idea) is if I genuinely believe the person asking is in more need than me at the given time, because -- you know -- the greater good :)

[–] 0laura 1 points 5 months ago

same here, kinda. I was born with it but noone knew about it until the first incident when I was 11, and only really started affecting my day to day life a while after that, but I don't really remember a time before that