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Trauma is trauma. This isn't the Olympics, and we do not judge and compare trauma.
YOU'RE ALLOWED TO FEEL SAD or pissed or frustrated or hungry or lonely or happy. The existence of people more happy or lonely or hungry or sad than you does not rob you of your right to feel.
Don't minimize your own experiences. They're the only ones you get.
I hope tomorrow goes better. No more free slurpees tomorrow, but it is Friday.
Ha, jokes on you, that's what TV and books are for! (Mostly kidding, but not completely)
Yeah I’ve been having to remind myself of this as I (diagnosed with ptsd) have been hanging out a lot with someone whose life is an unyielding horror show. It’s important to be sensitive and acknowledge the differences with her, but it’s also important to understand that my life has been pretty fucking rough in its own right.
And both of us manage to complain about a bad day at work. Sure her night terrors aren’t about her bad day at work, and none of her shifts have resulted in one of her traumatically originated mental illnesses, but I still get a text bitching about it from her when it happens.