this post was submitted on 31 May 2024
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This looks likes somebody in denial, rationalising their feelings
anon was almost fine till the slut shaming bit. it’s totally valid to have boundaries around smoking and alcohol, especially underage where those are significantly notable red flags.
even rationalizing one’s feelings is a pretty healthy thing to do. far better to acknowledge that the pretty girl had flaws than to pedastal her and pine after an idealized version of her for the rest of his life because that’s just a recipe for depression and self hate.
that said, her sexual history was none of anon’s business, and the fact that he doesn’t even seem sure about it while being willing to judge her character over it speaks volumes.
i hope anon is doing alright and has learned confidence in himself. also hope his relationship with women’s sexuality can improve cuz yikes.
If you want to have a romantic relationship with someone, you probably want to know if they cheated on somebody before you go for it. Otherwise you'll probably get burned just like they burned others. Maybe Anon wants a loyal girlfriend
"Slut" doesn't mean a cheater. It just means (if it means anything) that you've had a bunch of/a lot of partners
Sometimes it does mean "cheater," but I agree that's probably not what OP meant.
Yeah some do use it like that, granted
(CW language, i don’t usually like saying these words so much but i feel it’s relevant and constructive here)
a very important distinction lies between a cheater and a sexually promiscuous single person, or “slut.” anon didn’t acuse her of being a cheater; he said slut. if he meant unloyal he should have said that. if he doesn’t know the difference, he needs to learn.