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I think part of my hopelessness is that I am realizing hrt has not done anything to my face, I figured this out since I am still pretty recognizable. the only thing hrt has done for me is give me boobs, which usually results in hey dead name, you should loose some weight when i am recognized in public. I just feel hopeless and I want this nightmare to end.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think you need to come out to those people. It's scary, and in the immediate-term very bad, but after that... you get recognition. Not being recognized as yourself suuuuucks.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

This helped my friend so much. She finally told me and a few other people what was going on, and we all kind of went “oh, (dead name), wait. No. What’s your new/real/we don’t know what to say name?”, and we had a conversation about it all.