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USASG and STG mostly. I did have a subscription to RM for a month but that has expired and I’m not jumping through crypto hoops to renew. I just check for places with recent reviews and then check them out on Google Maps for reviews and general vibes.

I think this is beyond what a typical rub and tug semi-legit place would offer. Even an independent might not be down with this. You’re looking for a specialized escort at this point IMO. The logistics and clean up just don’t seem possible for any place even giving lip service to being a legit business.

I’m sure you can find someone willing to do this for money, I just doubt that you will find this with a business that has to pay taxes and operate a store front.

I don’t have any experience to say this though so take it with a grain of salt

I haven’t been seeing too many in my area thankfully. On the old sub I heard of a few in the Texas area, so it seems like it really depends on the political leaning of your state and local area.

Make sure you’re clean. Have the money separated by pocket. I put the house fee in a front pocket and then the tip in the back. If you’re new, you might not know how much you will have to tip, so it might be worthwhile to put the max amount you’re willing to tip for the first time.

You can haggle if you want, but don’t be a douche about it. There’s lots of historical posts and knowledge about what is normal, but for normal L1, you are looking at 50-80.

Don’t be nervous or explicit. As far as anyone knows, you are going in for a massage only. Nothing wrong with that. And in my area at least, the MTs don’t have good English so expect to not be able to communicate that well. Body language, pointing and nodding/shaking your head will probably be most of the conversation.

Always get naked when getting on the table. I’ve seen people say that you shouldn’t put a towel over yourself either, so far my results have been mixed with that.

Prices have definitely gone up from the guidance I’ve seen from the old subreddit and other sites like RM.

Getting L1 for $50 for instance seems pretty impossible. I’ve seen one place in my area that would accept $60 and that could have just been because of the experience. I had to wait 30 minutes on the table before the MT came in and they left in the middle for someone who wanted a “15 minute” massage which is definitely not on their menu. So I’m pretty sure they just left for 5-10 minutes to jerk off a guy before coming back to me. The general cost for L1 in my area seems to be 60-80 and that’s without any extras like UTC roaming, GFE, or nursing. And the one time I got (a bad) CBJ it was $130 and that was a negotiation.

So extrapolating out from there, $200 doesn’t seem completely out of whack. If you think about escorts, $200 would be within spec for low end type of FS providers but with more risk (physically, legally and STD wise) and possibly for less attractive providers.

I don’t have much fear of this since I go to official businesses, not private providers. But I do use Sudo for my texts and calls just in case and don’t give any real info.

Just off this experience I wouldn’t worry about it too much, but I wouldn’t go again if it concerns you. There are lots of options out there, no reason to add stress when the whole purpose is to relieve it.

I wasn’t clear, definitely not trying to get them to do more than what they want. It was more about how to relay what I want considering that it isn’t the usual rub and tug. If they don’t offer that, it’s all good. But I would like to know the best way to relay what I want.

Thanks, those are good suggestions and what I will try.

Have you had good experiences using a phone for translation? I usually don’t bring my phone in and the one time I needed to use a phone for translation it was before the actual massage. Have you ever asked for the phone while on the table to better translate what you want? Did it work well?

In my area at least, the prices are all out of date. So I will generally look up a new place on Google Maps and see what their prices are there to be sure.

There’s a sidebar with common acronyms. AMP is Asian Massage Parlor.

It definitely depends, and not just among different MTs. I’ve had an hour session end early and gotten some nice face and arm massage action and I’ve had it end just after they do the weird pressing on my groin with a warm wet towel to clean up move that I don’t get. And this is from the same MT.

For my midsized area it really feels like the experience you get can vary wildly depending on how busy they are and seemingly how the MT is feeling that day.

If that is a big thing for you, I’m sure if you’re a good customer and tipper you can get post finish work if you ask. And I’ve seen reports from the old subreddit of people getting multiple pops in the same session.

And if that isn’t something you want and you want to leave immediately after finishing, again as long as you are a good customer and tipper I can’t imagine that being a problem. You are letting them be more efficient and make more money at the end of the day.

Oh yeah I definitely get that. I wasn’t clear. I wasn’t asking how to convince some place that is HJ only to do more.

My question is for a place that for example does offer CBJ, what things should I know and do to try to get what I want? Like for example, the one time I’ve gotten a CBJ, it just wasn’t good. Plastic wrap, too much teeth, not deep enough and no other action for anything outside of the shaft covered by that plastic.

For HJ for example, if you want a PM there are things you can do before hand like body grooming, body language during like raising up during brushing and putting your legs up and simple verbal queues like “lower” that can get you what you want. Are there things similar to that you can do before and during a CBJ or a BBBJ to get a better BJ, PM and even something like a TUMA?