prim3r

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I don't think it needs to be mean spirited to be transphobic. The implication seems to be that he is tying to determine whether a sex worker is trans by asking if they are a boy. There's probably a better way to word that question, but then it wouldn't fit the meme.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

You're god damn right we will.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago

Going easy on myself is gonna take some practice. Thank you 💕

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

This is really helpful, thank you!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Youtube is a life saver for sure. I'm sure I'll have a few questionable outcomes soon enough though lol.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Wow I have a lot to learn lol. Thank you so much! 💕

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

This is great, I'll keep this in mind as I plan some next steps.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Thank you, this was grounding <3

 

Last week I got myself a tape measure, figured out some sizing things and ordered a cheap dress online. It looked good, and for the first time in my life I felt beautiful. I felt like I could actually pull of a transition and not look like an ugly man in a dress. I giggled and cried and it felt so good. The next day I went to the mall, got my ears pierced, bought all the girly things I was brave enough to in person. Then I paced around mac like a weirdo until I worked up the courage to go in and ask for help picking makeup. They were great and super helpful getting me some basics. When I went home, I put my dress on, and thought I'd take it slow and just put on some lipstick and paint my nails. When I saw myself, I felt like an ugly old man in lipstick, and it fucking ruined all the euphoria from before. I know I can get past that, do my makeup better and find something more comfortable, but I wanted to hang on to that feeling forever. I saw the woman I know I am inside for a moment and wanted the rest to just happen. It's not gonna be that easy though, is it?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I had to get a hue remote to properly reset my bulbs.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 11 months ago (4 children)

This is ridiculous. You don't need more than 4.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

I had a roommate who could decently understand japanese this way. We had him look away and translate for us a few times and he was spot on. I'm sure if he put effort into speaking it he could have learned to do that as well.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

Why did you install it with gnome if you're not gonna use it? Does jiggling a connected mouse prevent this behaviour? If it is a problem with gnome, as you seem to suspect, run it without a DE. Less overhead and complexity.

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