One baby was kinda not a big deal imo. When the second comes it gets a little more exhausting. Still manageable, but yeah.
Edit: I mean, it was a big deal, changed our life and perspective on life so much. I was just adressing the stress level. Most important is to work together. I also have to add that we have a 1 year paid leave for one parent here in Germany. So it is ~~probably~~ a lot easier here. Edit 2: also, mad respect for single parents. That is, naturally, a whole different story.
I was sitting next to my wife for a few hours talking to her (we brought food and so on, so no need for me to go anywhere).
I mean, I would have had time to play games, but I doubt I'd still be married. Tbf, I never even thought about that possibility before seeing this post.
I could maybe understand it, if it was a problematic pregnancy. Like, the wife of a friend of mine had to lie in a hospital bed for several weeks before giving birth to reduce the risk of premature birth. You'll want to spend as much time there as possible, but after sitting in a room together for weeks, this might start to sound like a good idea,