lurklurk

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[–] lurklurk 5 points 1 month ago

Not a book, but an article

What worked for me was the realisation from articles like that, that I wasn't lazy or unmotivated, just in a loop of: some reluctance to get started → distraction → feeling bad about not having started yet → distraction → feeling even worse → distraction → ...

It was pretty much an emotional management issue rather than a motivation of focus issue.

The solution wasn't to try harder, be more disciplined or structured or anything. The solution for me was to learn to identify the feeling and take a moment to go "I am feeling reluctant to start this and want to do something else. I'm feeling bad which is ok. Now I'll just get started anyway until the feeling goes away" and usually once I got going I felt a bit better

Pretty much I dissociate for a little bit, which sounds bad but it really works for me. The bad feeling for me is mostly at the start, and once I'm actually making progress, that feels good

Longer term I have learnt ways to make getting started easier

  • For a cognitively heavy task I try to make the first step easier; e.g. before I leave it one day, I make a note of what the next thing to do is, which means starting it takes less effort.
  • For a manual task that is hard to keep doing because it's mentally unstimulating, I do it while listening to an audio book or while having a phone conversation.
  • For any big task I try to find small bites I can do and feel I have made progress, so I get a mental reward rather than an insurmountable thing. Even if the big thing is 1000 small bites, if I just make regular progress I will get there in the end.

The more I do these things, the less bad feelings I have about these tasks

Everyone is different and your tools might end up looking different, but there are probably ways you can get past it

[–] lurklurk 1 points 1 month ago

Most of the stuff listed sounds like bs no one needs.

Who needs a special container for cut onion, unless you are running a food truck? Cut the onion when you need it.

Who needs a gadget to squeeze a toothpaste tube unless you have mobility issues?

Etc

[–] lurklurk 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It would be nice to have a simple way to block the user base too

[–] lurklurk 11 points 1 month ago

Or run the raid 5 or 6 separately, with hardware raid or mdadm

Even for simple mirroring there's an argument to be made for running it separately from btrfs using mdadm. You do lose the benefit of btrfs being able to automatically pick the valid copy on localised corruption, but the admin tools are easier to use and more proven in a case of full disk failure, and if you run an encrypted block device you need to encrypt half as much stuff.

[–] lurklurk 2 points 1 month ago

as long as your a minor enough criminal for no one with resources to bother tracking you down using the public data on the chain

[–] lurklurk 1 points 1 month ago

It's all the bad idea of regular digital elections, with the additional stupid of being more public, complex and wasteful

[–] lurklurk 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Only the NFTs didn't do anything of the kind, unless backed up by actual legal contracts in which case the NFT was pointless, and you could just have had the legal contracts

The only reason it had a brief flash in the pan was that it was an attractive grift for speculators betting there were greater fools, and when the fools ran out so did the NFTs

[–] lurklurk 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The blockchain is always "gonna become crucial" in lots of things, depending on whatever looks popular at the moment, yet it never does because it is obviously a bad idea.

It's a grift, and if you're not an active grifter, you are the mark

[–] lurklurk 18 points 2 months ago

You get pretty far with just clone, pull, add, commit, push

[–] lurklurk 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Not voting for Harris was indirect support for worse genocide. Choosing to stay on the couch is still a choice, and this time that choice gave us Trump

[–] lurklurk -1 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Yeah, let's blame the people actually supporting Harris for her loss. That's a great idea. Let's all just keep falling for russian psyops or stay quiet to not "divide" us again

Great plan

[–] lurklurk 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Well, enjoy your new president then

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