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[โ€“] lemonmelon 2 points 2 weeks ago
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[โ€“] lemonmelon 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Calling someone a chaser solely on the grounds that they claim to have dated a trans woman could imply "no cis male could be interested in a trans woman outside of pure fetish bait", which is awfully reductive. It casts the trans woman as an object in the relationship rather than an equal partner.

[โ€“] lemonmelon 14 points 2 weeks ago (13 children)

Not sure what your personal definition of "tankie" is, but by any rational measure @[email protected] doesn't fit the bill.

[โ€“] lemonmelon 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

If an app has IMEI access, it could indeed make/manage calls, among other things. I would probably like it more if it were phrased along the lines of "permission to read IMEI", but that would mean noting to most users. Instead, the description of the permission is for the most impactful thing that a common user would understand (assuming they're paying attention to what permissions an app requests at all).

[โ€“] lemonmelon 5 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

Estimated "over 1,400" monthly users. Be honest with your numbers.

[โ€“] lemonmelon 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Sure, it could be. But there is no inherent level of "telling someone they aren't trans" by stating a belief that less than half are.

[โ€“] lemonmelon 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Of course it can be. But the viewpoint called into question is "I don't believe that half the users are trans". Based on the data you personally referenced, that is a valid viewpoint for someone to hold without telling anyone who identifies specifically as trans that they are wrong about their gender.

Further, 598 is not 42% of "over 1,400".

[โ€“] lemonmelon 12 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

With regards to the polling you've referenced: of the 598 respondants, less than half indicated that they were definitively not cisgender. Hexbear, per prolewiki has "over 1,400 monthly users".

Not only does the raw data from the self-report survey not bear out the premise that half of the users are trans, it also does not factor in response bias, which impacts any such survey.

[โ€“] lemonmelon 7 points 2 weeks ago (10 children)

We read the same statement. I interpret it as "I believe less than half of the userbase of the instance is trans" which does not rise to the level of telling someone they aren't trans. Was anyone specific named or called out as "not trans"? Was there any direct accusation of insincerity or fakery with regards to an individual's self-identification?

[โ€“] lemonmelon -4 points 2 weeks ago (24 children)

I don't see anyone doing that in this example. Are you misinterpreting the meaning of the original statement?

[โ€“] lemonmelon 29 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

Solid advice. It can be completely benign, but people will still pounce on it for an "easy win".

[โ€“] lemonmelon 3 points 2 weeks ago

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