I found a recipe from the '50s a while back that I tried once for a Claret Cobbler which was actually quite delicious.
"Fill tumbler 1/2 full cracked ice. Add 1 dash maraschino, 1 teaspoon each sugar and lemon juice. Fill with Claret. Stir and add fruit"./
I used rich symple syrup in place of the sugar and subbed in triple sec for the maraschino since it was what I had for fruity flavors and then just served with an orange wedge instead of with fruit in it but it basically tasted like souped up wine. Im not a big fan of wine in the first place but the bit of sugar and extra fruitiness made it something I could definitely sip all night
I think its a frank discussion that would need to be had between you and your partner, sexual frustration is definitely, well, frustrating and can lead to resentment and other negative emotions that no one wants in a relationship. And while it may not be fair to you that you have a high sex drive and you just have to sit there with this person are attracted to and love, its also not fair to pressure them into sex when they dont want it.
Ultimately, it comes down to whether being with that person is worth the lack of sex. Its a hard question to ask yourself but if sex is an important part of the relationship to you, then as much as you love a person they might not be the best partner for you