iarigby

joined 11 months ago
[–] iarigby 1 points 6 months ago

I love them so much

[–] iarigby 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

It is very weird that tools that support “onion” ssl - some way that would allow one layer of encryption for your “allowed” mitm which would keep almost all the request encrypted with key for the server.

[–] iarigby 3 points 6 months ago (2 children)

parakeets should be up there with dragons

[–] iarigby 3 points 6 months ago

In my experience, in general for all movements, loudest ones are always a bit more extreme and sometimes over the edge. It seems to be very strongly coupled with activism and in many cases drives the movement forward. So I have trouble accepting that reason as an excuse to so quickly dismiss something, especially a major movement.

However this is a very widespread issue and a reason my comment sounded a bit annoyed. But since it is an actual problem, articles and discussions like this are important and meaningful. Hope your community keeps growing and more men who struggle with of abuse from the patriarchy are able to find a safe space and a support system 🧡

[–] iarigby 2 points 6 months ago

Being Russian has never changed throughout my country’s history. We have been murdered and abused the same from the empire to the USSR to current Russia. The behavior has been same and consistent and far surpasses the context of current wars, so you can’t blame Ukrainian and Georgian people’s refusal to be re-invaded by Russia one more time and wanting to do nothing with them on “being polarized” by the war.

[–] iarigby 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

yeah you can’t weasle your way out like that since I got literally 0% of that information from western media - I am from one of the countries that were victims of USSR and current Russia

[–] iarigby 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] iarigby 59 points 6 months ago (43 children)

The title and some comments read like a revelation of people who, without looking into it, assumed feminism is for women or is anti men and are surprised that the movement actually wants to free everyone from the cycle of abuse.

[–] iarigby 7 points 6 months ago

Then there are also people who drink or used to drink a lot or use lots of recreational drugs in higher than safe doses and call it adhd when they experience memory or attention problems… When I finally admitted I needed help, it was after years of positive lifestyle changes not having any effect. That’s very bad too because I pretty much tortured myself for too long, most of my potential went down the drain and I became a person who pretty much no longer trusts themselves and is always scared of pursuing opportunities because of inevitable spiraling into dysfunction. That scenario is something nobody should end up in and people need to feel supported to seek help to minimize such damage, but those making zero effort and completely jumping over so many first steps in helping the typical and very common symptoms is really irresponsible. Having people claim to have adhd just because they have memory problems, or attention problems from spending unrestricted and unmonitored amount on apps designed to break the brain, or a textbook burnout… It’s not just insensitive to those who are suffering from the disability, it is also detrimental to give amphetamines to a body that needs care, rest, or exercise.

[–] iarigby 14 points 6 months ago

I think about this often and it’s very scary

[–] iarigby 5 points 6 months ago

There were so many new ideas and perspectives in that article for me. It was a very interesting read, thanks for sharing.

[–] iarigby 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I really don’t understand how a 5-10 minute meeting can get in the way of progress

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