iarigby

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[–] iarigby 13 points 4 days ago (1 children)

thanks for sharing this, it’s really encouraging to know that I don’t have to feel the connection immediately

[–] iarigby 9 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

come on, only one out of those four is a programming language

edit (begrudgingly): ok fine, half, but still

[–] iarigby 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

What do you mean by “no structure”? Afaik mongodb does not enforce a schema in a collection by default

[–] iarigby 8 points 5 days ago

I’m gonna buy enough baggy pants while they’re available to survive the next skinny cycle

[–] iarigby 4 points 1 week ago

I do get it, that’s why I live in Europe. It’s just shocking to read about such cartoonishly evil treatment of humans.

[–] iarigby 6 points 1 week ago

learning to casually flirt is hard! And you can’t learn it without trying and failing a few times… It was scary for me too. I agree with others that spending more time accepting and loving yourself would be beneficial. Another thing that would be beneficial to accept is chance of rejection. It’s not personal and also not a big deal if the person that expressed interest then moves on. I’ve made a mistake a few times really inflating my expectations and fueling my interest and then reacting very poorly to rejection, so that’s another thing I’ve tried to improve.

If you work on these barriers and take shots, you’ll get some practice and improve, and over time you’ll definitely have at least a few successful interactions which will be immensely helpful.

[–] iarigby 13 points 1 week ago (3 children)

that sounds like jail

[–] iarigby 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] iarigby 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

das ist ein bisschen Deutsch? Man I’m fucked I’m never gonna learn this language.

[–] iarigby 16 points 1 week ago

and that kind of driving affects not just brakes, but gas, engine wear, etc. not to say how horrible the whole experience of being bumped back and forth is. it’s SO simple and really reflects how careless and ignorant people choose to be about almost everything, and then that makes me really irritated

[–] iarigby 5 points 1 week ago

great explanation, thanks!

[–] iarigby 4 points 1 week ago

i use matrix lol. get lost with your condescending attitude.

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