hoshikarakitaridia

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[–] hoshikarakitaridia 9 points 4 weeks ago

Yeah will play more into the uncanny valley.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia 2 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Have fun playing :D

[–] hoshikarakitaridia 22 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Warframe. Inching closer to 3.000h currently.

It does come in waves, but every once in a while I go all in again and lose myself in the infinite things you can do.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia 4 points 1 month ago

Yeah I think hate is a draining and destructive emotion.

There's situations where it should be used, but it should be used wisely. For example, it takes an insane amount of shady behavior to get under my skin, but when people do, they earn my hate and that makes me set very solid boundaries. But it would be bad to destroy friendships for hating someone because we got on each other's nerves for a while.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia 9 points 1 month ago

No.

You have a kid, but it's your decision.

Sounds like she's trying to skip the part where she fucked up and she should apologize to you and give you some space. Instead she's leaving you an impossible choice.

But you can talk to your son and tell him how much it stings and that you just can't do it. Sure you can "put all the bad blood behind" but it takes two for that and you can't force someone to reconcile by pressuring them with their son and luring them with a paid for vacation.

This makes me mad for you, this is so unfair. No one has to take that offer, and your son will understand. Maybe your ex will understand too, but it looks like she's still too immature to understand right now.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Really hard to give advice when there's a lot of factors involved, like:

  • how long have you been together with your kid and your second wife?
  • did she know what she was signing up to?
  • how much time are you dedicating to her vs to the kid?

And then, jealousy is a subjective feeling. Now because you know how she feels, if you are spending basically no time with her then you might be able to carve out some more time for the both of you, but the main part of dealing with the feels is on her. Growing a better connection to you or the kid is also on her. And communication is key. Relationships are hard and complicated, that's why you gotta talk a lot.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think there's currently over a hundred potential victims individually or collectively suing him.

And before anyone starts searching, please take this trigger warning. It's one of those cases that seems to have about the worst allegation making him look like a real monster.

We'll see how much of that will stick in trial but it's looking really bad for him.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Yes. There is either asshole or asshole but purrs occasionally.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia 97 points 1 month ago (1 children)

As a German, this the insane things our parents, grandparents and institutions warned us about. People begrudgingly accepted their lead in the hopes that "although it's an authoritarian, maybe he will take care of our goals". What followed was the cruelty of 1939 to 1945 and no one deserves to live through that, not even the idiots that got us in this mess.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia 3 points 1 month ago

Lovely game tbh, can recommend if you just wanna have something to do for a while without thinking too much.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia 6 points 1 month ago

Ahsoka Tano.

She is driving everyone crazy but she cares so much, and empathize with her so much.

Man, the clone wars really fucked me up didn't it...

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