I treat the whole male thing the same way other people treat their cringe teensge phases. I don't erase it but I do generally avoid talking about it or acknowledging it when not relevant. Because yeah it really does feel like a cringe thing I did when I was younger and hadn't figured myself out yet.
And if relevant I transitioned at 20 a decade ago
I've straight up heard someone say that about her disability. She claimed she earned it by going through the stuff that traumatized her to unemployability. It's wild