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[–] beccaboben 2 points 1 year ago

I too join in the under-the-bed club. So hard to clean, why not any of the many hard floors?!

[–] beccaboben 4 points 1 year ago

Riker's face is giving me life right now, thank you for this!

[–] beccaboben 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Here's the article:

Don’t blame domestic violence victims in child welfare cases

DCF should be guided by best practices.

By The Editorial BoardUpdated September 20, 2023, 4:00 a.m. In cases involving domestic violence, DCF’s first obligation is to protect the child. But there are options that do not punish the parent who survived domestic violence. In cases involving domestic violence, DCF’s first obligation is to protect the child. But there are options that do not punish the parent who survived domestic violence.Wilfredo Lee/Associated Press It is one of the toughest challenges in the difficult field of child welfare — protecting children in homes where there is domestic violence while not punishing a non-abusive parent for being a victim.

A recent Globe story reported that in Massachusetts, advocates say the Department of Children and Families too often blames victims. The story profiled a mother, Lisa, who DCF said neglected her child — a finding that hurt her ability to get a job — because she fled to a next-door apartment when her partner tried to attack her, briefly leaving her sleeping baby alone.

While DCF’s first obligation is to protect the child, there are options that do not punish a parent who survived domestic violence. Studies show one of the best ways to ensure a child’s resilience in a home with domestic violence is to ensure they have a strong positive bond with the non-offending parent. DCF’s policies should reflect that goal, and the agency should work to strengthen, not sever, the bond between a child and a non-abusive parent.

[–] beccaboben 4 points 1 year ago

Thank you for this!

[–] beccaboben 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Oh boy, yup, I'm right around there! Didn't realize that was a thing!

[–] beccaboben 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I too require assistance!

[–] beccaboben 5 points 2 years ago

I absolutely love this rendition! I'm two episodes in and I'm just trying to go slow and savor it. I hope it continues.

[–] beccaboben 3 points 2 years ago

Amy Sedaris is a treasure!

[–] beccaboben 1 points 2 years ago

Not a dad, but I'm a parent and had my own daycare for a decade. If you want to keep up with the training, accidents are likely to happen, although you could try having your kiddo sit and try to go every hour, to try and avoid accidents. Is this feasible for the school to do too? I'd keep the training at home and school as similar as possible, so wear bottoms at home as they're required at school. Just my two cents though. Best of luck!

[–] beccaboben 6 points 2 years ago

Oh man it has a squish, love it!

[–] beccaboben 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I was thanking my trees yesterday, as my biggest maple totally shades my backyard and makes it tolerable outside, even on the hottest of days!

[–] beccaboben 4 points 2 years ago

Treat yo'self!

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