alphapro784

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

Your son is so cute and your cat as well! This is something I've always wanted, a family of my own even with how difficult it can be raise a child and everything. Idk there is something fulfilling for me when it comes to family but I really appreciate you sharing that and your advice as well

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

I agree with that statement, I've been going to my family's place every weekend just for that to learn to cook with my mom lol at this age

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

No you're fine, I appreciate what you're trying to tell me and I definitely will try to follow what you've said. I'm curious though as how would you try to watch your diet? I have a really really bad food control cause food has been my stress reliever and how can one be consistent in having smaller portions? Like for me, I tried to really eat a smaller portion but its just that I end eating bigger portions because idk I feel depressed and I'd just be thinking of the food more than the goals I'd like to achieve if that makes sense

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

I agree, it is definitely skewing how I perceive the age vs relationship when I see a lot of people who've been in relationships multiple times before they hit 25 when I moved to the US when I was like 19. Other things that could be skewing how I perceive is how I think I look which is another reason why I am trying to lose weight as well. Thank you for your reply tho, I really appreciate it.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 7 months ago (5 children)

Thanks for responding to my post! It’s just that, I come from an immigrant background and I never really had the chance to date tbh. It’s just my thinking is that the longer it’ll take to find someone the more likely I’ll be seen as a walking red flag. Sure I’ll hopefully be in a good position career wise, great social life but never having had dated anyone isn’t a good look. It’s just in my experience a lot of people brushed me off cause of that so it just makes me feel trapped I guess. That’s why I felt that it’ll be too late.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 10 months ago (3 children)

There is another thing I want to mention is like how do people find dates? I don’t wanna sound like I’m whining or anything but dating apps never worked for me so I was wondering like how do you meet your potential dates in-person like at bars? Sorry if it sounds dumb but I’ve had a hard time with that so I thought why don’t I would just genuinely ask about it?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Hi “new here” I’m dad!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

You can! There is a RSS logo you can click on when you’re on the desktop version on Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Thank you for giving a clear and concise answer! We appreciate your hard work you've put into Lemmy!

[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 year ago (1 children)

For me, I check reddit like once or twice in a day where I just check what on popular and on r/all for like 5 minutes on my desktop. Also to checkout r/OMSCS and that's about it. Lemmy is where I am at most of the time now lol. I used use the official app and its so garbage but it was so addicting for me to use before the Apollo drama. Now that addiction isn't quite there anymore and Lemmy hasn't been super addicting for me and I like this feeling a lot.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Its from a satirical movie called Starship Troopers and this screenshot is from one scene there at the end of the movie I think

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

Gave it five stars and wrote it down as well. I wish I could give this app six stars

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