UsedAndDenied
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Depends on the make. The cheap Chinese devices are uncomfortable to wear and not very tight fitting. But higher end devices, typically handcrafted and tailor made to fit the wearer, can quite effectively block the clit. Even more effective are piercings designed specifically to afix a clit guard. These can provide genuine orgasm denial to the wearer.
My experience is with a Fancy Steel belt. I wouldn't want to wear it long term, but it was effective. And it made me very horny.
I missed it. It happens.
I didn't know who it is. Sorry.
This is so intimate
The same on the orgasm control. My partner had her own methods of torment. But she chose the time and circumstance of any stimulation or orgasm I was to receive.
My previous partner didn't spank, except during play. But if I did something wrong she made sure I knew. She would have me kneel and pleasure her as she scolded me. I could say nothing but get out a, Yes, Mistress here and there as I performed my duty. Then, when she was done, and after I agreed to improve, she would have me pleasure myself as she watched. I was not permitted to stop until cumming.
This was most certainly humiliating, and I still get aroused thinking about it.
OMG I've actually done this. Laptop and all! ๐