Tot

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[–] Tot 11 points 2 months ago

"don't eat with your toes"

Kid was plucking food off her plate with her toes and eating. But hey, at least she was eating food that wasn't Goldfish.

[–] Tot 4 points 2 months ago

Apparently this can be debatable, but I think treating children like humans with feelings can go a long way.

[–] Tot 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I found one that's hopefully decent for those using either light or dark mode.

[–] Tot 2 points 3 months ago

I was using one of those before!

I'll hunt around later after shudders bedtime.

[–] Tot 1 points 3 months ago (5 children)

This one is basically invisible on dark mode. I'm using Boost.

[–] Tot 1 points 3 months ago
[–] Tot 1 points 3 months ago (7 children)

Thank you! I don't see the broken icon on the app I'm using but I see it on web in chrome. I'll change it tonight. Btw I'm in central time.

[–] Tot 1 points 3 months ago (12 children)

Broken? It should just be the emoji for a baby or kid or something. What are you seeing?

Also, what would people like? I'm not an artist so didn't design something, and didn't want to steal other people's work.

[–] Tot 5 points 3 months ago

Sideways was the only one that worked for my oldest.

[–] Tot 2 points 3 months ago

My oldest is 4 and she takes no BS. She is so strong-willed it can be absolutely maddening. As much as I fear parenting her is going to be rough, I hope she maintains her spirit. She feels all her feelings in quite a big way, for better or worse. She has always been this way. I truly hope it sticks. I've had strangers tell me that she's the type that is going to run the world.

My other one is 2.5-ish. She is so tuned in with others' feelings, it's pretty incredible. She likes to make sure everyone has their napkins and dinner and utensils and everything before she'll sit. If she keeps this up, she's going to be taking care of everyone all the time. That's not a bad thing. The world needs some more of her empathy.

As you see their personalities emerge, it's hard not to feel confident in them and hopeful that you'll also feel proud of the decisions they make on their own.

[–] Tot 2 points 3 months ago

Successfully uses the potty as a bedtime stall. It's the only time she consistently goes potty on the potty.

[–] Tot 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)
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