Tot

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[–] Tot 12 points 1 day ago

I didn't want kids for the longest time. Then I met my husband and wanted to make a family. We were fortunate to have two lovely girls (after three unfortunate miscarriages). Actually, I think it was after the first miscarriage that my desire for a baby was truly solidified.

Life is chaotic and busy and expensive but I wouldn't trade it for life before kids.

[–] Tot 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Stephen King - Holly

Not far in it yet but glad it's not 1000+ pages.

[–] Tot 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Heading Home With Your Newborn was probably the only useful one I read.

One interesting thing I noticed was that What to Expect and Mayo Clinic's Guide and whatever else I read were really verbose whereas whatever book my husband had (targeted towards fathers) were more straightforward and to-the-point.

[–] Tot 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Goodness that's awful. How is your sister doing after all this time?

[–] Tot 3 points 1 week ago

I don't put batteries in them if I have the choice.

[–] Tot 10 points 2 weeks ago

Sounds like she's getting her sleep needs met... During the day. 😬 It's a phase but I'm sure feels like eternity. You can caps naps, add white noise, make sure she's warm enough, erc. Maybe introduce a lovey if you're comfortable? I'd start with capping naps.

[–] Tot 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Are there any indoor playgrounds near you?

[–] Tot 5 points 3 weeks ago

You're doing great. They'll eat when and what they need! Your kiddo is eating better than me. I had two cookies.

[–] Tot 5 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

How old is this infant and what is this infant being fed?

[–] Tot 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Blues Traveler - Hook

[–] Tot 2 points 3 weeks ago

Plans are a bit subdued due to COVID. One family member is currently in the hospital as a result of some symptoms.

[–] Tot 2 points 3 weeks ago

They're excited. They want stuff wrapped in certain colors so I can't wait for their disappointment tomorrow lol

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Tooth fairy?? (self.parenting)
submitted 2 months ago by Tot to c/parenting
 

Who came up with the tooth fairy anyways, this is ridiculous.

My kid has been talking about it because some classmates have lost teeth recently. It got me thinking the whole thing is bonkers. We're supposed to sneak in and put money under their pillow? How TF do we do this without waking them up? And HOW MUCH? Has the tooth fairy kept up with inflation?

My kids haven't lost any teeth yet. Looking for input and fun stories from parents with kids who have lost teeth!

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Parenting is Stressful (self.parenting)
submitted 3 months ago by Tot to c/parenting
 

The Daily: The Parents Aren't Alright - Link

My crummy tl;dr - Intensive parenting and social media parenting shit making us feel guilty for everything. Previous generations parenting was going about life with the kid doing whatever on their own. Now we are on the floor with them always in their business thinking and preparing ten steps ahead

I'm curious what parents of kids 5+ think of this. At one point in the podcast, someone says, "Bigger kids, bigger problems is what they say. It becomes less physically demanding, but it’s more mentally demanding."

My kids are 4 and under, so I'm definitely in a phase where they are physically demanding.

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School age kids? (self.parenting)
submitted 6 months ago by Tot to c/parenting
 

Do folks here have school age kids? Curious about parenting struggles and how issues have been resolved.

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submitted 2 years ago by Tot to c/parenting
 

Running out of ideas to entertain my toddler and preschooler. Help! One eats everything and the other is in full three-nager mode.

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Toddler Antics (self.parenting)
submitted 2 years ago by Tot to c/parenting
 

My 3 year old just kicked me off the couch so she could invite her dad to come snuggle with her.

What are your kids up to?

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New parenting community (self.parenting)
submitted 2 years ago by Tot to c/parenting
 

I've been thinking about this for a few days. I want a place where parents can come talk about parenting with a group of peers to commiserate, seek advice, provide advice, etc.

Parents of all children of all ages are welcome.

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submitted 2 years ago by Tot to c/parenting
 

Title says it all. I've built up communities before but that w as s before I had any children. I'd love some help here. Something about how it takes a village comes to mind. 😂

I want this to be a respectful place. If a child's health or safety is at risk, feel free to speak up. Respectfully.

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