I think what's jarring is the contrast with how relatively nice everyone's being over here, while Reddit hasn't changed. I had a quick look back at some reopened subs but I don't have much of a desire to go back right now.
Also, this was never really about the APIs specifically for me, that brought it to a head, but really it's all about the way Reddit has been heading for the last few years. A lot of people who are back don't seem to appreciate that.
I now think a duck would be the funniest. Obviously, the ultimate "middle-finger" to the old regime.
while the US seems to prefer lemmy.ml, lemmy.world or beehaw.org
Of those I think only beehaw.org is US-based isn't it? lemmy.ml and lemmy.world are European (I forget where, and I don't really care so there's no need to tell me).
I've said this before elsewhere: I don’t dislike the idea that there could be multiple similar communities on different instances. That way if you have beef with one you could sign up to another; in a non-ideal world that strikes me as healthier than having one to rule them all and lots of people bitter about it. I think it’s best to leave it to sort itself out organically.
What I observed over the years in that Other Place is that communities could be more-or-less self-regulating until they reached a critical size - after that they would have to either be heavily moderated or turn to crap. We're nowhere near that size here, and perhaps we'll never be (which is not necessarily a bad thing).
I hate to say this because it may be elitist, but it's been on my mind since joining yesterday: the fact that Lemmy is relatively unknown and relatively difficult to sign up to acts as a good filter at the moment. It's like the early days of the internet where you had to be a certain kind of nerd to have a computer and a modem. It's been great, like the old days.
I know the lemmygrad.ml instance claims to be Marxist but I don't think they're generally taken that seriously (and not to be confused with lemmy.ml) - is that what you're confusing? Apart from that, the federal nature of Lemmy means it doesn't really matter what the creator's political beliefs are.
It happens to me with books, and also equally often with podcasts.
My theory is it happens when something else has (often subconsciously) hijacked the language processing part of my brain. E.g. if I'm reading and there's another conversation going on in the background that I'm slightly interested in. (The reason I mentioned podcasts is because this revelation happened to me when I discovered that I can do a sudoku puzzle while listening to a podcast but not a crossword.)
Really thinking about investing in one of those ~£300 air conditioning units for home next year, as summers seem to keep getting worse, anyone tried those?
I'm not keen on the idea, air conditioning makes it feel even hotter when you go outside - and who wants to sit around inside on a hot day?
If I create a link with the target /c/[email protected] like this, I think that gives a relative link that works across instances which may work in the Jerboa app. Any luck?
Edit: no it doesn't, sorry, but that should help people on the web version who aren't on feddit.uk.
Mastodon STILL has UX issues, and the rest of ActivityHub and the Fediverse are impenetrable to the average person. That will change over time, but in the meantime, I can’t even get people to use Signal for god’s sake, let alone explain which Lemmy instance is best for them.
Wouldn't it make it so much worse? If getting people to sign up for a Lemmy instance is a hard sell, it would be even harder telling them that they've now got to choose an instance that doesn't federate with Meta stuff. (unless you're fine with letting Meta in, which I'm not).
I'm finding it's much better to sort posts by "hot" than "Active", it seems to more heavily prioritise newer posts. I'd really like to make this my default but I can't work out how to do it - does anyone know if that's possible?