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I kinda hope it stays this way tbh... pork is all over the internet, I don't know why people can't turn their dick off for five minutes sometimes.

Edit; pork. Porn. Keeping it.

This is particularly why I don't participate in any social media aside from (what used to be reddit but now) lemmy. It got to the point where I wasn't even enjoying reddit, I just clicked it out of habit. And did I actually retain anything useful from that website? Lol no. It was all just timewasting bullshit that put you in a pissy mood.

It's nice to actually hold a fucking conversation for once. I think a lot of us came here for the same reason; missing the community of that old school forum feel.

Trust me, as a hetero woman, I got so exhausted too. Reddit got so eye-roll-y within....less than 5 minutes sometimes that it made me just leave and go do something productive.

Thank you!

Honestly, grouping plants together helps tremendously with the humidity. There are a couple of them that will always need more (for example, it seems no matter what I do I can't keep my alocasia stingray or philodendron aurea thriving) but truthfully, I should be keeping those in a different environment anyway. Most of them are absolutely fine. During the winter it does get really dry in there (I'm in zone 4, so heavy and long winters) so I run a humidifier if it gets below 45 on the hygrometer, but it usually doesn't because they're all so grouped up.

I'm more surprised that my cacti seem fine with the humidity levels and never get signs of rot. I dont know if it helps but I keep all my dry/arid plants on one shelf, and my more humidty-needing ones grouped together away from the arid ones.

I have a thermo/hygrometer but it always seems to stay stable.

Hahah, I've killed two rufibarbas. My first one was due to a draft in the windows and the other one came with mites, and it was so bad I didn't want to f with it. I'm on my third and it's been a good relationship for about a year now :) they like humidity and their soil to stay very slightly damp-ish. I've noticed they don't do well in an area on their own....grouping plants helps here with the humidity, and calatheas are little drama queens so if you get another one, good luck!

Hmm..... I see the points being made. Thanks for supplying actual information. I think it's a bit too soon to see how this will play out, and people are quite malleable, so this will be interesting to watch develop.

That seems a rather simple statement to throw out there without backing it up..are we supposed to just repeat information like parrots now? Or is there information out there I haven't been made aware of?

Honestly, I leave them alone most of the time. Check out the Planta app -- it's a watering schedule app that you input the conditions your plant is in, and it adjusts accordingly. Be careful not to take it word for word though, machines can only be so accurate and it's better to trust your own instinct on watering...for example it'll tell me my alocasia zebrina needs to be watered all the damn time but every time I go to check it the soil is still soaked, so I give it a while to dry out first. I use the app more as a reminder to check if the plant needs it, rather than to water without question.

Aside from that though, that's really it. I spend maybe 10 minutes a week watering. The upkeep is the only "difficult" part - trimming dead foliage, plants need repotting, getting appropriate sized pots for their root system, keeping the soil mixes to the plants needs, etc. Once you learn the specifics of the major species groups you can easily discern from there what a plant would do better in for soil. For example, alocasias need chunky well drained soil so I'm always sure to mix orchid bark in there with peat moss/coco coir. My carnivorous plants get a mix of no added fertilizer peat moss/perlite/sand/sphagnum because they're more particular. Likewise, my lavender plectanthrus is happy with anything so I put it in just standard potting soil mix.

I guess then there's pests you have to worry about. But.. That's a different subject lol.

Edit; I should also add I do have adhd so when I got into the hobby I didn't expect to go balls to the wall lol. I had one houseplant before and it was dying. Suddenly something flicked like a switch and I had 50, then 100, then 150.... yeah... but it turned out to be a nice hobby I think, because it really does help with stress and make you feel happy to care for and watch something grow.

Hahaha! Sure! I make a great cup of tea for hospitality :)

Yep :) I used t8s (or t5s? I can't quite remember) for the shelves. I posted a photo from the chair view in the comments, maybe that will help picture them better. There's another shelf on the wall beside the chair that's kind of hard to see that has lighting too. Honestly if it weren't for all the lighting, I don't think half of these plants would survive.

Thanks, that's Atlas! He's the biggest sweetheart (and asshole) I know.

Ugh I love spiders. I want to hug them all. I wish more people had an appreciation for them! They really are our little eight legged bros.