Dashi

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[–] Dashi 9 points 6 months ago (3 children)

I get that, in my experience it was just weeding through the bad ones. I had my fair share of un matches/ghosts/a holes.

I also hated taking pictures of myself and had a mediocre at best bio. What worked for me was not getting emotionally invested in the apps/matches.

The matches that i got and went out on a date or two with i was very up front that i was still using the app. It wasn't until our 4th date that my partner and i deleted our apps.

Anywho, just wanted to share some hopefully positive advice. You will find the right one for you! Just have fun with it and try not to take it seriously

[–] Dashi 4 points 6 months ago

Yeah, that's how i started using them as well, it just increases the odds. I went through a phase of "wanting to be in a relationship" and that was the focus of the apps for me. I would read every bio and then decide if i swipe right or not and think about how we would be good for each other. That was taxing and took a lot out of me emotionally.

Eventually i realized it really is just a numbers game. So i just looked at pictures and if i liked them swiped right. Then if we matched i would read the bio and have conversations.

That being said i was the one that got swipped right on and am thankful to have deleted those apps a year ago. I feel for those that are stuck in the online dating hellscape.

[–] Dashi 2 points 6 months ago

<3 i may have to try this. Thank you

[–] Dashi 9 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

I'm just about done with lemmy to because of assholes like you. Jesus christ its worse than reddit.

All it would take is, hey not how sugar highs work you don't actually get energy from them, what actually happens is a dopamine rush that makes people happy and happy kids tend to run around and play more.

Took me 2 minutes of googling to find that. Did i ever say this list is bullshit? Should be burned? Has no factual basis?

No, i just gave my experience, what i seem to have seen in my life, and question the list. I'm happy to have a conversation about it or i wouldn't have posted.

But you just go around insulting people and comparing them to Trump supporters. Grow up. Have a damn conversation. Stop trying to turn everything into an argument

[–] Dashi 1 points 6 months ago

Go to your android phone app, hit settings, and their should be something in there for blocking spam calls

[–] Dashi 3 points 6 months ago (4 children)

Yeah, that's the one that has me doubting the entire list. My kids do get a "sugar high".

The wording they use is off and may be technically right. but if we are going based off the wording they use i don't think it would be a common belief.

[–] Dashi 1 points 6 months ago

With all the stuff going on, i am in the us and forgot their was a train wreck in ohio.

[–] Dashi 0 points 6 months ago

And does it have an Eastern area? /s

[–] Dashi 7 points 6 months ago

That makes so much more sense than the title. It leaves out the warehouses part

[–] Dashi 5 points 6 months ago

Thank you for partially resorting my faith in humanity

[–] Dashi 19 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Not the 529,000 views that the video got? Was that satire or is there actually a channel that is that popular for candy crush and state of the game updates on it?

I don't want to search for it and poison my recommendations for years to come

[–] Dashi 8 points 6 months ago

Very much this. I dislike M$ as much as the next guy but it isn't always their fault. The biggest reason we have outdated SQL in my experience is older software that clients do not want to pay for an upgrade for that uses a sql backend that will break if we have the databases in compatibility mode.

Just like M$ with good reason (mostly) end of life's an OS they need to no longer mainstream support older software versions.

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