Dashi

Yes

In my career i have gone from Systems Engineer to professional services to Profesional services team lead to Senior Systems administrator to now just Systems administrator. All doing basically the same IT stuff at progressively higher levels other than the team lead part.

When i was looking for my last job i applied for a remote admin job and experienced exactly what you described. I was on the third interview and was asked when i was going to move to the area and if i wanted a relocation allowance as part of the offer. Uhh what? To them a remote admin was an administrator that went to remote sites. What a waste of my time

I believe that is called having friends. Not clones of yourself. I've made plenty of friends online that we just played a game together and when we were done with the game we never talked to each other again. Played with some friends raiding in wow for years and at the end we were just done. It's the cycle of gaming friends.

And my irl friends don't always play the same games but they are not "friends" they are friends. We have different ideas of what types of games are fun.

I use my blanket as a cloak all the time lol

I mean not really. I know people that take public flights from GRR to Ohair because they don't want to drive 3 hours and world rather fly 30 minutes. If someone without a private jet is willing to do that. Imagine what someone with a private jet would do

Windows server license and CALs... don't forget that extra little cost just because from MS

Another vote for Antimine. It fills my minesweeper fix

Some companies that have it set up incorrectly use the personal profile. If you join a company and they don't have you set up on a work profile you know their it practices are not the best

My problem when i was younger was i didn't pay attention much to my bank account and would unknowingly overdraft. So i would get hit with 10 over draft fees out of nowhere for buying gas here, a pop there, a drink at a restaurant, just small charges that if i were smart didn't need and would have just done what you did. It's the un anticipated overdrafts that killed me when i was younger.

I never meant to imply/ say or in any way hint that therapy is bad. I think everyone can use it.

100%! I am not saying learning these things doesn't help. But blaming lack of dating in their teens for an incel becoming who they are is not a valid justification in my opinion.

To be honest, dating 20+ is a shit show. The things i learned about dating in my teens didn't help me dating in my 30's. Sure they have issues dating but we all do. It's the willingness to learn, adapt, and care for someone else that i don't see in incels and that isn't learned from dating in your teens. They seem to blame outside forces for their issues and not seek to improve themselves