Johnny Depp was a toxic boyfriend and a chronic substance abuser. So was Heard, but the fact she's a dumpster fire of a human being doesn't make Depp a saint despite what the internet tried to tell you.
Just two shitty human beings who made each other miserable.
Just to add to this... When I first saw the trailer, I became completely obsessed with the film. I visited the website and read a bunch of short stories on there about the world of the Matrix.
And besides all that, when I finally sat down in theaters and watched Neo take the red pill, I had absolutely no clue what was happening. Their marketing material 100% avoided even spoiling the very premise of the film. All they did was build a mystery.