You can use your account to comment and post on communities on other instances. This does NOT mean your login will work on their site.
If you go to https://Lemmy.ml/C/[email protected] you are now interacting with a community on that instance. The posts, comments and votes are synchronized across at a server-to-server level and cached in Lemmy.ml
I would get an account on a different instance anyway though, lemmy.ml is overloaded and needs people to spread out to different servers