You can create a local repository to host your package: https://wiki.alpinelinux.org/wiki/How_to_setup_a_Alpine_Linux_mirror
As said you can use Ansible to automate your upgrade process
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You can create a local repository to host your package: https://wiki.alpinelinux.org/wiki/How_to_setup_a_Alpine_Linux_mirror
As said you can use Ansible to automate your upgrade process
Yes, Ansible would work for this. See the apk module. https://docs.ansible.com/ansible/latest/collections/community/general/apk_module.html
Yes, you could run a caching HTTP proxy, or your own mirror and set your VMs to use it.
I would recommend looking into docker and/or Kubernetes, though. It would solve these problems in a much more automated way.
For the updating procedure you can use Ansible. https://docs.ansible.com/ansible/latest/collections/community/general/apk_module.html And for caching packages you could set up a local mirror, cache the via squid, etc.