this post was submitted on 22 Oct 2023
25 points (96.3% liked)

Transfem

3187 readers
272 users here now

A community for transfeminine people and experiences.

This is a supportive community for all transfeminine or questioning people. Anyone is welcome to participate in this community but disrupting the safety of this space for trans feminine people is unacceptable and will result in moderator action.

Debate surrounding transgender rights or acceptance will result in an immediate ban.

Posters may express that they are looking for responses and support from groups with certain experiences (eg. trans people, trans people with supportive parents, trans parents.). Please respect those requests and be mindful that your experience may differ from others here.

To make such a request, at the start of the body of your post, not in the title, the first line should look like the this: [Requesting Engagement from _________]

Some helpful links:

Support Hotlines:

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
 

I was playing one of my "therapy games;" a game that, like, I use for therapy, ya know? I saw a line I hadn't seen:

"Thank you for showing these monsters how to love."

Context aside, it got me thinking, self-reflecting.

I've been trying to "set aside" our arguments, trying to show my brother, my mom I'm still me.

I'm trying to love them, despite how I feel they have slighted me. I'm trying to show them how to love.

Before you write them off completely, try to show the monsters in your life how to love (with healthy boundaries, of course). The results may surprise you.

top 4 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago (1 children)

What game is it you’re playing?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

The Void Rains Upon Her Heart

It's a boss battler/ shoot-em-up/ roguelite/ bullet hell game.

It's themes center very heavily on depression, anxiety and self-harm, so content advisory if you're sensitive to that.

I kinda identity with the first character a bit, but maybe I'm projecting?

A lot of the lore is told through multiple playthrough, and unlocking items and reading lore on them Dark Souls style, but much easier to follow. It's been in early access for years, but I think that's mostly just writing and art. There's TONS of content to keep ya going for a while. I got it as part of Yogscasts Jingle Jam bundle a few years back, so idk what the price is on it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I am so proud of you for taking the step to being able to tell your family! Let alone working on showing them how to love you. We're all the same people we were before - were just now MORE of ourselves that we thought was possible.

I love you for coming out to those around you. I'm not quite ready for that yet. My wife and therapist knows, but no one else so far. Kinda scared of that part. Lol

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

Well, good luck, and we can try to give you what emotional support we can here. We try to be a supportive lot, though I've been known to be a bit of a hard-ass. I'm trying to be better.