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I'm looking for other transgender people to be friends with. I used to be antisocial but now that I have been on e for a few months I feel so much better and I want to find some friends to play games with like Minecraft, Terraria, and Spelunky. I don't really know where to make friends but doing it locally isn't an option because I live in the middle of nowhere unfortunately.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

We run a blåhaj matrix room if you're interested in checking that out

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Maybe try finding small discord groups for those specific games.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

I think in this case the opposite is probably the better approach. Find trans/more generally queer discord/matrix rooms and then find people that play similar games

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I've tried discord but haven't had any luck yet.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Check out element and find "The Apothecary" very good and trans friendly community.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Is that a game, server, chatroom, maybe an app?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

server that hosts chatrooms

[–] WeevilFriend 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've found my trans friends through school and through friends I already have! But if you want, I always love to have more friends :)

I have all of those games but I don't have as much free time as I used to. Lemme know if you wanna talk!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah I don't have as much time as I used to either. I gotta write a paper today after I get home from work, but if you have a discord, I'll join and we can talk sometime later if that's fine.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I had success in smaller communities around more niche topics. For example the discord server of a smaller content creator or game.

I had good experiences on the discord servers for Amethyst-szs (~450 members, <30 active) and transsocial.space (30 members, <10 active, not a lot of activity in general tho)