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I've been hearing for years that artificial gems (diamonds, rubies, moissanite, etc) cost a 'fraction' of the real thing. Is this true? If so, where can I as a consumer buy a handful of this stuff?

Note that I don't want jewellery-grade gems, I realise that would cost a lot simply due to rejects and labour to cut / polish. I just want stuff I can mess around with for hobbies and crafts.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 43 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Buy cubic zirconium then, it's the cheapest artificial gem which is still jewellery grade (though on the lowest tier, just above high quality glass).

I'd bet you can find them on ebay and if that fails, google a jeweller supply shop in your country. They are very common and affordable.

There are artificial rubies and other gems which aim to mimic the index of refraction of the real gems, they are much more expensive and they exist in different types, but, they are still cheaper than the real thing.

For crafts, get the cubics.

[โ€“] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago

Just looked them up, I knew they existed before but did not realise they came in different colours! Also, they've been around forever so I never really associated them with artificial gems. Thanks!

[โ€“] [email protected] 34 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Lab grown gems have almost zero chance of being haunted by the souls of the children that died mining them. Of course they are of a lesser value. Does anyone actually want some lonely soulless rock?

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I would prefer my boardgames to stay unhaunted , tyvm.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

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[โ€“] Rednax 5 points 1 year ago

So you are looking for empty gems, so you can fill them with the souls of your "friends", allowing you to call upon them anytime to play more boardgames.

A reasonable goal.

[โ€“] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They are a lot cheaper yes, diamond mining companies artificially limit supply to keep the price of the mined diamonds up. We have an abundance of them, so the lab grown ones are significantly cheaper because their supply isn't artificially limited

[โ€“] Potatos_are_not_friends 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

There's absolutely zero reason to ever buy a real diamond as a fashion statement.

Unless you only prefer diamonds made from human suffering.

[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My fiancee and I both got artificial sapphires in our engagement rings.

Real ones were nearly double the price.

You wouldn't know they're lab grown. They look great.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But you know no children died extracting them right?!

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Are you saying that like it's a good thing, or a bad thing?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My wife and I got moissanite for her engagement ring. It was about 1/10th the price of a diamond of the same size. I think it looks even better than a diamond, personally.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

It is a brighter sparkle than diamond, def more desirable to me.

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Alibaba has, unsure if you could find them through a more local store. Though I've never come across completely uncut lab diamonds, generally you can find rejects or poorly cut small ones pretty cheap.

EDIT: did a quick search on Alibaba and there are uncut lab diamonds as well even cheaper.

[โ€“] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Speaking of Alibaba: Tianyu Gems is a quality dealer of moissanite. I originally got the recommendation on Reddit from someone who had ordered multiple stones. We used them for the moissanite in my engagement ring.

The larger stones are obviously jewelry grade but they have some cheaper bulk options too.

[โ€“] rigatti 12 points 1 year ago

My wife's engagement ring is a giant moissanite rock (2 carat, I think) that would have cost 20x more if it were a diamond. She has gotten it cleaned at some jewelry places that even said they would have thought it was a diamond without really close inspection.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

I shopped at gems n gems (website) while ring hunting. We're literally talking a dollar a gem, buy 50 or 100 if you want to make sure you get something you'll like. I ended up not going with that option because I'd end up needing a local jeweler and wasn't enthusiastic with my options, but still went synthetic from an online jeweler.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Bought a bag of large Zircons, look nice in a little velvet bag ...

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

.45 carat moissanite was 80 euros from a local jeweller, directly from manufacturer would be even cheaper.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

You can look for industrial grade gems, but they are going to look like crap.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A bag of plastic gems on AliExpress couldn't cost much and imo would work fine for hobby board game pieces

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Well yeah, but there's a certain fun to playing with actual gemstones ๐Ÿ˜