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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/theothersinclair on 2023-06-22 23:07:56+00:00.
I (F30) am dating this guy (M30) - exclusively, if that is relevant. I decided to do something nice, so I invited him over for dinner. He accepted the invitation, and we messaged back and forth about the details and eventually got to the question of when.
I suggested a normal dinner hour and he asked for a late dinner hour (an hour later). Why? Well he didn’t actually have plans but wanted to leave his options open for drinking beers with his coworkers, just in case (realistically based on his past behaviour he’s asking for 1.5-2 hours).
I told him I felt down prioritised for plans that didn’t even exist. He thought I was unreasonable and cancelled the whole dinner so that he could remain free for his coworkers.
So dear Reddit, am I being uptight for not being willing to push the dinner?
AITA for not wanting the move the dinner for potential plans?