this post was submitted on 21 Jun 2023
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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hello! Overall, I've been having a pretty good day. Easy day of work; waiting for things to run. Minecraft during breaks

How about yours?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I am relatively ok

Have a dentist appointment later so thats fun

Nearing the end of my art break so thats a struggle too

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ugh, I'm not a fan of the dentist lol I should go back though

How long has the art break been?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

3 weeks

Its been 11 months since I actually took a break from art before this, so Im doing it for my mental health

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's a good call - glad to hear you're taking care of yourself. Burnout can be really paralyzing

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I think I might be trans haha. My days are currently filled with attempted self reflection. But weirdly as much anxiety as I'm having, I feel weirdly good. Which may be a sign.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

High five my internet twin!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

High five indeed. I dunno, feel like I need to talk to some trans folx but not sure when I'll actually get the chance lol.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Feel free to make a post here. There's also a link in the community sidebar to the gender dysphoria Bible, which should be helpful sorting through your feelings.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Also I'm on my third read of the dysphoria bible lol. It gives me a lot to think about.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I re-read sections all the time. It shocks me how many things I didnt realize were dysphoria all throughout my life.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Very much so. Idk, it was very weirdly relatable.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Have been thinking about it for a few days now. Will likely happen soon.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I transitioned full time back in 2016. Pm me if you want to talk. I have shared my story with dozens of newly hatched eggs, and talked to hundreds of internet strangers questioning their gender on reddit.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes ^^ Just went to my local trans meetup after missing the last couple meetups

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

My day is going well enough. Reading a trippy horror novel, House of Leaves. Looking forward to the weekend tomorrow. I am starting a new roleplay group. Wish me luck.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Good luck fren

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

House of Leaves is fantastic!`

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

It's a helluva ride.

[–] Cynosure 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I keep wanting to shop for more fem clothesbut don't because I'm feeling depressed, and then feeling depressed because I don't have more fem clothes. If only there was a solution.

[–] ActuallyASeal 1 points 1 year ago

Pretty good. I actually noticed my lost weight today. I still have a ways to go but seeing the progress was nice.