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[–] zeldakong64 33 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I was really hoping to experience the old “My parents were right all along” revelation that so much folk wisdom says is inevitable. Unfortunately, the older I get, the more experiences I have and the more perspective I gain… my parents really look worse and worse. I would rather it be the other way, and ultimately I am sadder for my younger self as I age.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 day ago (2 children)

My father's career advise to my brother and me was "Make lots of money so I can come live with you when I get old."

My brother didn't like that advise so he did a bunch of research and asked a bunch of people about their careers. He got a masters in an Engineering field but hated working in that field. So he got another masters. He doesn't use it for his career.

I studied Chemistry and left grad school to do software development with no degree in it (it was the 80s). I never used my degree either.

Confronting my dad about his bad career advise would have just gotten his Standard Response to Criticism™--But I'm lovable.

And no he never lived with either of us. But then he never go old.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago

What didn't you like about the "make lots of money" advice? It doesn't sound like you or your brother actually disagreed with it. Your post reads a lot more like your father said "go to college to make money", but that's not what you say he said.

[–] MsPenguinette 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That advice did age better with time. A lot of well paying jobs now require a BS for you to get in the door. I have a degree in Mathematics. Haven't directly used it at all but it's paid off

[–] ThunderWhiskers 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Only as a result of millions of kids being told that college was the only viable route to a successful career. It's just yet another commoditized self-fulfilling prophecy.

[–] MsPenguinette 3 points 1 day ago

I agree with you, but to me good theory and good advice can be different

[–] Garyx23x 8 points 1 day ago

Oof too real