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[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 months ago

You have to leverage the situation you're in, but something that works well for me is go climbing gym > compliment someone on their climb > strike conversation > if it goes well, ask for their insta (semi-public info) > slip into DMs (wanna go climbing again?) > make a move

Between each >, it's obviously only a step you can do if the vibes check, but it's one example of something that works. Also I won't lie doing this is a bit difficult, but you get better with practice. It also works great if you go to busy climbing gyms in different places at different times, since you'll always see new people. Final caveat is I do this for friends, since I'm already dating, but it works the same way to catch a bf/gf

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 months ago

dating apps are bleak as fuck, yes.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

choosing signals

Intaresting

[–] frostysauce 10 points 3 months ago

Came here to comment that the fact OOP uses language like "choosing signals" is probably the reason women aren't interested in talking to them.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 months ago

Find pubs with karaoke, and do it. If you're decent, someone will compliment you. Strike up a conversation with them.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 months ago

I legit have no idea how I meet people but some how I have friends and occasionally girlfriends. I can't control when it happens I just have to wait until I get a friend join event.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

It's tough, but you have to go to meet people not girls. Have fun, be social, and you'll get there.

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