I was just thinking the other day how unhealthy it is to think that if someone isn't terminally online they're lame or dumbasses
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It's a coping mechanism
If anything it's the reverse. 'Touch grass' has become a thing for a reason.
Get a job that requires you to spend 60+hours of your week offline and you'll quickly realize how mind numbingly boring your coworkers are. That shit incinerates any personality you possess and makes you appreciate how much more interesting those "terminally online" people actually are. You'll not pry anything beyond small talk out of them no matter how hard you try.
You just don't have a good job. That has nothing to do with IRL vs internet. You are around, likely, a bit very large group of people day in and day out and have now decided they represent the world because you haven't stepped outside the world that is your job.
That is the problem, though. There's a certain amount of free time required to be spent conversing if significant ideas are to be conveyed, When I was in university I could talk about wackiest stuff with basically anyone I meet because all of us had enough free time to engage with those ideas. If work snatches that free time away from us, there's not much we can do.
The people you can meet online also exist in the real world and probably in your area. I fail to see any argument here that is an actual rebuttal to the thread. This has nothing to do with free time or otherwise. It has to do with the concept of stereotyping the people you know offline and deciding they don't even exist online and that people who spend all their free time online are somehow advantaged by default.
Stereotyping is foolish. Especially on such a small sample set simply because of outsized exposure.
Get norm-pilled. Touch grass. Grow a garden. Look at the bees! Actually smell the flowers. They're wonderful.
Normie is to be using only three websites from the internet and complaining that they should be two.
Huh. I really can't imagine normies exist.
When I think of a normie, I think of the Cleavers, or the Simpsons. A conglomerate average of what we expect white America to look like.
I think every family has to deal with weird shit, weather mental illness, disability, fentanyl addiction, Juggalos or a Gen X discordian auntie who takes no-one's bullshit. We all have stuff going on that kicks us out of the normie threshold.
Which kinda is the point of this meme. The usage of 'Normie' has gotten mainstream and everybody refers to each other as 'Normie' implying that they themselves differ. But you know, most people differ a bit. Mainstream is mainstream, but just because you are using a "special" website, that doesn't make you abnormal.
I'm confident normie comes from 4chan, I've seen it thrown around there since long before it became mainstream, but there they were using it to refer to people living normal lives, something they (mostly) wanted to achieve. (I.E.: "I've got a girlfriend, I'm finally on my way to become a normie")
Now in its current usage it is more like an insult, something like saying "you are a basic bitch", which implies that person who said that isnt.
Normie was common insult groups used in my high school 20 years ago. It's not new, it's just coming back.
Ironic meme template choice
Out of curiousity, why?
Of all of the alt-right pundits, Steven Crowder - the one pictured here, is the one most likely to call somebody a normie.
Ah it is an ironic choice then lol.
I remember when the only place I saw people unironically use the phrase normie was 4chan. And now ironically the normies have adopted the phrase themselves, unknowingly appropriating 4chan culture
I wouldn't call what goes on over there "culture".
TIL I didn't know the meaning of normies.
It's not a word I use but when I saw it first, I thought it meant neurotypical, then after a while I saw it in a more political context and thought it meant centrist. Turns out, it just means mainstream. I think.
What exactly does this word mean?
The original meaning of the word as I first heard it back in the late 1990s was to refer to the vast majority of "normal" people who don't have an interest in or deep understanding of technology and internet culture.
I don't think it was originally meant as an insult, but more as an acknowledgement and reminder to ourselves that the things we were into and cared about were a niche thing and not exactly the norm.
Nowadays, I've heard it applied to just about any niche interest or hobby, for example: people who are not into mechanical keyboards would also be "normies", and worse it's being thrown around as a direct insult to people, in the same vein as calling someone "basic".
The original meaning of the word as I first heard it back in the late 1990s was to refer to the vast majority of "normal" people who don't have an interest in or deep understanding of technology and internet culture.
that's still my understanding of normie today. a normie nowadays is the average person who uses soulless platforms like tiktok, insta, etc which are controlled by big tech companies and exist for the sole purpose of making money. they don't know about the golden age of the internet when you cared about the content and not about likes. but now since the normies discovered the internet everything has to generate as much profit as possible
I would not agree that you two are saying the same thing.
I didn't know it dated back to the 90s, but I agree, the word has gotten mainstream and changed its meaning while doing so.
Actually even further than that, even back in the 80s it was apparently used in certain subcultures to distinguish (drug) "addicts" from "normal people".
"not into a niche thing" basically
Normie is fine, NPC is where it gets cringe
Someone described Lemmy as less accessible safe space for internet veterans. Oof
Strong disagree. We just left the place overrun with „normies“ and one of the reason they stay and go on using reddit with their vanilla apple devices while sipping a moccachino at starbucks is because they‘re basic and boring.
Edit: Okay, since we don’t all have the same humor, I‘d like to spoil that this was not a serious comment. I just don’t think calling Someone a normie is different than „nerd“.
Thanks for demonstrating.
Well, you‘re also allowed to come here. Is the frontend polished enough for you?
Who hurt you?
Reas this again like someone else wrote it. It's condescending and patronizing. You're not better than these people you judge.
I guess you missed out on the conversation a week or so ago about how ridiculous elitist folks who use the term "normies" sound and how it's inherently not aligned with the idea of the fediverse. But sure, you do you.
.... this post isn't a joke is it? This situation really is that deep to you isn't it?
We're calling Redditors normies while Redditors call Twitter and Instagram users normies. "Everyone is a normie but me!" lol
While twitter and insta users call facebook users normies which call people who actually go outside normies. We‘re being called normies by coders and they are called normies by hackers the likes of anonymous. The never ending normieception.
Does the cycle begin and end with the likes of folks like Linus Torvalds actually enjoying nature as a hobby?
Would make sense! :)
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