Not sure what your question is or how people will respond, but in my opinion, asking for advice from someone with more experience isn't as shameful or 'dumb' as you might think.
Linux 101 stuff. Questions are encouraged, noobs are welcome!
Linux introductions, tips and tutorials. Questions are encouraged. Any distro, any platform! Explicitly noob-friendly.
I consider fearlessness in asking questions to be a sort of superpower. There was a saying on the wall in my 7th grade English teacher's classroom:
He who asks a question is a fool for five minutes. He who remains silent and does not ask remains a fool forever.
Don't worry about seeming dumb or noob-ish. Everyone starts somewhere. How can we learn without asking questions or making mistakes?
The /r/selfhosted wiki is still amazing and you might learn the terminology needed to turn your "stupid questions" into smart ones :)
we all started somewhere, don't be afraid to post questions in [email protected] or maybe in [email protected] (if it's linux-related)
Some nice people will help you for sure!
OP, I think you'll find [email protected] will be fine - please ask your 'probably super dumb' questions there, I'd be stoked to see some I could answer!