this post was submitted on 03 Jun 2023
223 points (97.4% liked)

Lemmy

2172 readers
1 users here now

Everything about Lemmy; bugs, gripes, praises, and advocacy.

For discussion about the lemmy.ml instance, go to [email protected].

founded 4 years ago
MODERATORS
 

Rule #2 is possibly our most important one:

Be respectful. Everyone should feel welcome here.

Learn to disagree without being rude or disrespectful.

It can be difficult sometimes, since western social media thrives on collective outrage, and they knowingly ingrain this into us for years. But please do adhere to this rule, and it will make this place much more enjoyable.

We will not hesitate to issue temp bans (usually a day or two) for those who make everyone's experience unpleasant.Hit the report button if you see this behavior.

Thanks!

top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 year ago (1 children)

First thing I read on Lemmy and it's like I've found emotionally intelligent people finally.

I saw the same thing on Mastadon, just normal people capable of handling their emotions.

Western social media (and television) is promoting the worst in people and it can make users believe everyone is insane. So it's very nice to see this being posted.

Thanks!

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago

It's nice to have a place where I can ask genuine questions without being called a complete idiot just for asking.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I am like a veteran to this site because i joined 3 years before new people moved to here

I agree with this post and I think that its important to have a post like this to remind people.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

Lots of redditors are coming out of echo-chambers. In fact most of reddit has become one starting from a suffocating top-down control.

They've forgotten how Reddit used to be and so are astounded at how "uncomfortable" Lemmy is given its NON-pyramid like structure.

The discomfort is how the world and free speech needs to be and I'm a non-white Muslim typing this.

None of us is 100% right so we should always be exposed to other POVs and question ourselves to keep ourselves in check and evolve in objective ways.

I hope Lemmy keeps it this way and the money doesn't corrupt things as it always does. Believe you me, advertisers and nefarious actors are already reaching out to Lemmy authors to do exactly that.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

this! I hope we stay such a friendly and open-minded community where one doesn't have to fear to say/write their thoughts.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Good luck with that. Knowing were the exodus has come from. We can start vetting the new users but this is not proven effective.

Malicious reporting can also become a problem if we start being trigger happy on banning users.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

That is of course quiet a difficult task. And will be very much in the hands of the moderators. Just like the countless mods that voluntarily keept reddit running. I'am quiet positive that we cant accomplish that even better here.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Good advice for life outside in the real world as well whenever possible. You can disagree without going thrermonuclear.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"YOU" are not your argument. Disagreement is not an attack on you as an individual and should not be taken as such.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Why do you hate me and attack me so ruthlessly 😭

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sounds pretty fascist to me /s

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I don't agree with this but I respect your opinion

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

yes sir 👍

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

May I add:

  • "disagreeing is not hating"

Even ChatGPT can get this.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

ChatGPT has more social skills than a lot of people do...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Except when it's about THAT topic, of course...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You mean racism, sexism, and homo/transphobia? Yeah. I hear ya on that!

load more comments (2 replies)
load more comments
view more: next ›