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The original was posted on /r/aitah by /u/Soft_Bowler_368 on 2023-07-18 01:07:10+00:00.
I F20 and my partner M20 have been together for 6 years, we’re very happy and healthy but my sister F18 has recently started to make “attempts” (I don’t know what to call them) at my boyfriend.
Everything was fine, she was friendly and we all got along until about 6 months ago when she broke up with her boyfriend. It started with her just increasing texting him, then it went to calling him mostly just complaining and talking to him. But in the last 2 months she calls him almost every day (he doesn’t answer most of the time because he’s uncomfortable). Asks him for rides every day to different places. Which is fine but she talks about her sex life, talks about how she “craves male attention” and talks about all the different guys that want her. Every time he takes her somewhere she tells him that she usually gives a bj for rides and she has no money but he just says he doesn’t want anything (she doesn’t really ask flat out if he wants one but he takes it as a nudge nudge that she will).
She always wants to come see him, and when she comes over he’s been hiding in the garage lately but she goes in to talk about all the new guys that have been hitting her up. She has also been recently texting him at late hours asking just to drive around and talk (obviously he says no) but she pressures him every time and keeps asking.
She recently even told me that my boyfriend said that her, me and him could tent together at the events in agusta in the fall. This made me uncomfortable with all the stuff she’s been doing lately so I said our tent couldn’t fit a third person and she replied she didn’t have a tent (she does). I brought this up to my boyfriend he said that she could tent the same area but never said she could actually sleep with us because he’s uncomfortable with her. But for some reason she seems to think we’re all sleeping together.
So what do you think? Is this crossing a line? Should I ask her to stop?