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The original was posted on /r/aitah by /u/Chongyboiiii on 2023-07-17 21:25:44+00:00.
AITA, 25m here and my best friend 24m have both been seeing two girls who are also best friends. Me and this girl got in to a relationship pretty quickly and have known each other just under two months which I understand is fast.
My friend has been seeing and speaking to the other girl the same amount of time but they are taking it slower which is totally understandable. As a group of four we have had small parties and been on activities as a group frequently
This evening my friend came over to my place and mentioned that a different girl I had been sleeping with at work a long while back (that went quite sour) was cute and wanted me to give him her Snapchat even though I blocked her ages ago. I refused and he called me a bad friend and said you’re choosing women before mates.
The thing is he stated to this girl than he’s been talking too that she wasn’t able to sleep with other men while they was seeing each other and if she did it would be over.
I refused to give him her snap and said it’s not fair on the girl because it’s hypocritical but he claims it’s okay because he’s single. He says I’m a shit friend for protecting the girl over knowing him for years but I think I did the right thing? I want total plausible deniability because despite them both being single it’s not fair on her.