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I'm currently struggling to find my home. I have an account here at lemmy.ml, where most of my posts are, and one at kbin.

Why do you think your instance is the place to be?

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I joined sh.itjust.works because I like the domain. It makes me smile πŸ™‚

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I read the thread where that domain was born, lol. It was pretty funny.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I kind of wish they chose "fedd.itjust.works" which was the other suggestion in that thread. "sh.itjust.works" is funny but looks like it's a shitposting instance.

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[–] moridinbg 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I did not. I ended up on lemmy.world but visiting over, which I think is a cool feature.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I guess a better question would have been, "Why did you choose your instance?"

[–] simple 14 points 1 year ago

Lemmy World is run by chill people with experience. They run Mastodon.world, which is a top 10 Mastodon instance.

Since the start it's been the most stable instance I think, they bought a beefy server after all the Reddit shenanigans and aren't imposing any weird restrictions. Would recommend.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

I chose lemmy.world solely on the fact it had a lot of members. Lemmy.ml was a contender too. I just wanted to jump in and check things out. Knowing (slightly)more now, I don't think it was a bad choice.

[–] humdrumgentleman 13 points 1 year ago

lemmy.world seemed reputable with a straightforward domain name, and no out-of-the-ordinary policies.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

I joined Beehaw early on when things where a lot quieter because I liked what they were trying to do (and back then there were only like two instances, and I didn't want to put more load on lemmy.ml).

Joined sh.itjust.works to make a community after the sysadmin just casually walked up with a huge server, which is a level of swagger I can get behind. I've since moved to this as my "main" account since Beehaw defederated with lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works (which sucks, but is understandable).

May move again to pawb.social at some point, although that means people will know something about me. :P

Edit: And now pawb.social has defederated with sh.itjust.works... I'm getting more and more tempted to just roll my own personal instance just for me...

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I joined lemmy.ml because the join-lemmy site gave me extremely little to go on. It was a coin toss between this and beehaw.org once I realized how few instances were established and not right-wing.

That was only 2 weeks ago and already I've seen the site force 2 server upgrades, even as the admins have strongly encouraged new users to join elsewhere to prevent centralization.

The instance list desperately needs a few columns added, including whether new signups are encouraged or discouraged.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

The github page said to pick one at rasdom and not over think it.

[–] MiddleWeigh 9 points 1 year ago

Thought about switching over, with zero knowledge of this platform, clicked random link in reddit thread and it was lemmy.world. turns out it's populated and stable.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

feddit.de because it was made for german potatoes like me

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] zorrothefox2001 9 points 1 year ago

Lemmy.ml re-opened registration but I had problems signing up. Lemmy.world seemed like the next best option.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I just picked lemmy.one mostly at random, but also in part because it advertised itself as well regulated but also not heavily populated and thus prone to crashing with the recent influx of reddfugees.

Seems to work okay, but I can't create a community without admin approval and the instance also disallows downvoting, and I'm not a big fan of that at all, but I'll give it a while longer and see.

I'm still finding it a challenge to find the balance of communities that interest me I used to have. There's an awful lot of meta chatter about the site itself from new users that, while I understand, gets rather annoying when it takes up the whole feed. So it's definitely an adjustment, resulting in me using it less than I did my old haunts, but in the meantime I've gotten a lot more reading done than I used to, so I've got that going for me.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Didn't realize I couldn't downvote. Might be time to look elsewhere.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Me, I'm waiting for things to settle a bit and see what recommendations float to the surface for me. Not being able to downvote might turn out to actually be good for my own mental health. We'll see.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not gonna lie. I've got multiple accounts across platforms. But yours seems to be responding quickly and the content is solid, so... here I am.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I was a bit confused at the start and in my haste created a few different accounts across kbin, lemmy.world, and Mastodon. Worst case scenario I have backups and I'll just end up using the instance I prefer the most, the most.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I was looking for a furry one. Found pawb.social and yiffit. Stuck with the one that had nsfw. They both are Lemmy instances

[–] Sir_Kevin 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I chose beehaw. I chose wrong. So now I'm on lemmy.world and nothing was lost 😎

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Back in my day, the only instance that federated with all other instances was lemmy.ml πŸ‘΄πŸ»

[–] nebula42 8 points 1 year ago

i moved over to lemmy.world after i heard somewhere that lemmy.ml was run by a tankie and had been censoring proof of the tiananmen square massacre. idk if it's true or not, but I didn't wanna take any chances.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Was looking for a furry one, and pawb.social seemed to be well-run (since it was related to a couple of decently-sized Mastodon servers) and was generic enough (and not NSFW focused). There also seemed to be a decent number of technical people there as well (in fact, one of the Mastodon instances is furry.engineer), so it matched up with my other interests as well. I considered lemmyrs.org, but ended up not choosing it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

same, went for the furry one.

[–] axzxc1236 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

lemmy.ml says they are overloaded, I then found beehaw but they requires signup application so I say fuck it and choose lemmy.world instead.

[–] kratoz29 5 points 1 year ago

they requires signup application.

Very user friendly.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I landed at vlemmy.net. I tried to register at a few bigger ones that gave infinite circles. By the time I got to vlemmy I wasn't really being too picky anymore, I was just trying to figure out if the problem was me or overloading.

A nice side effect of landing there is that some of my very few subscriptions are on beehaw, and we haven't been defederated.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I joined mander.xyz because it has a central theme around the natural sciences. It could possibly include STEM content as well; there is an ongoing discussion about it. The admin(s) are present and very responsive.

For anyone with a love of science and/or nature I recommend it highly as a home instance of Lemmy.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (5 children)

feddit.dk. I wanted a regional instance as my home instance, because they tend to be chill with controlled growth, while also having native language discussions. My country didn't have a Lemmy instance at the time, so I picked the closest option. I love Denmark and they don't seem too annoyed by my presence (yet). Thanks for having me 🫢🏻 πŸ‡©πŸ‡°

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

I run a Mastodon server and Lemmy started to grow, happened to find a cool domain so here we are

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was told it was better for load balancing if we didn't all use the same one. So I just looked for one that had easy signups and didn't seem overeager to block stuff. Apparently, some from this instance come form /r/china. I'm not, but I do drink coffee. Anyway, I think it's working out so far; better than reddit anyway.

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[–] Mrremrem 5 points 1 year ago

I chose lemmy.world after lemmy.ml closed their registration. Just glad I made my account somewhere.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Knowing that Beehaw and Lemmy.ml were overloaded, I chose the next biggest one in my country at the time, which was Lemmy.one.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

lemm.ee said it was newcomer-friendly and I was a newcomer so bingo bango there I went. I suppose I can always join a different instance if I need to but I'm still just getting a grip on this place so I'm good for now.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I created my own because I wanted a more specific type of instance, a place that I would want to read the local feed rather than just see randomness. I also wanted to create a space that I felt at home.

You're welcome to come say hello at Wayfarers' Haven - sign-ups are open but do need a short application to keep things ship-shape.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Vlemmy.net as it currently hasn't defederated from anyone or been defederated.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Kbin because it was the first one that actually let me register and didn't freeze

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[–] nivenkos 4 points 1 year ago

lemmy.world is more open and performant than lemmy.ml and Beehaw.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

funny domain name

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

My current instance has a bunch of sports communities, and typically the first thing i like to look at when i was on reddit were the sports subs. I was previously on beehaw but they kind of shut themselves off from some of other big communities so i migrated off

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[–] kiwifoxtrot 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I joined @lemmy.world because the admin @[email protected] had a lot of experience running a large Mastodon instance, and @lemmy.ml was asking folks to go elsewhere.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I'm self-hosting my own Lemmy instance, but I might switch to self-hosting kbin instead. I'm just unsure whether it's possible to migrate comments and posts from Lemmy to kbin :/

[–] atp2112 4 points 1 year ago

Lemmy.world: because it was the top result on Google and I neither knew about the other servers nor remembered my experiences with Mastodon.

Probably going to stay here anyway.

Mostly out of laziness

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