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Things are becoming more depressing every day and I can't afford for professionals and don't want to jump to the last resort or drugs. Is there a medicine that can make me happy if I take it in proper doses and does not require a doctor's prescription?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

There's probably no non-spooky chemical that will make a significant dent. People are recommending, like, chocolate, but I'm certain the main effect is eating your feelings, with substances causing a rounding error.

However, I can predict pretty well what therapist homework would be, or at least what it always was for me. Basically just clean living stuff, and not giving in to the urge to avoid doing things. There's CBT too, and resources to do it on your own, although it can get confusing without a helping hand. So, yeah, I suggest self-administering therapy. IANAT.

[–] NoSpotOfGround 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Whenever cognitive behavioral therapy is mentioned with an initialism there's this risk of losing it to immature giggling when you substitute that other meaning for "CBT"...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

I guess a helping hand is good either way, tee-hee.

[–] Makhno 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I have constant anxiety and low dopamine. I take Ephedrine, and it's worked miracles for me. It even helps me concentrate throughout the day.

I prefer Primatine, but Bronkaid also works. Both can be bought over the counter with an ID

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

This is a drug, which OP said they're avoiding. It's also potentially dangerous.

[–] Makhno 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Medicine is drugs, dummy. And ephedrine is safer than ibuprofen, so do a little research before you drop a dumb comment

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Wow, did you miss the point. Yes, I was pointing out that ephedrine--a medication--is a drug.

And no, it is not as safe as you make it out to be. I have both "done my research" and spoken with a couple of physicians about it.

[–] Makhno 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

What medications aren't drugs? Please, give me a list.

And your anecdotal "research" doesn't really mean shit against the mountain of evidence towards ephedrine's safety. It's one of the longest studied stimulants on the planet.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Yeah, that's why I made fun of you suggesting I do my own research.

You have completely misunderstood this entire conversation. I just said that medications are drugs. Are you high? Is that why you can't figure out basic statements?

If so, that's fine, you're welcome to be high, but you might want to stop commenting on the internet.

[–] Makhno 1 points 11 months ago

You're a moron with no point, holy shit lol

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

D3 with K2 supplement can help.

If you want something that's legal (but probably shouldn't be) I recommend kratom. Look for something that says Super Green. The less you take the more energy and vitality it gives you, the more you take the more it feels like an opiate.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

You could try sam-e if you are in a country that isn’t prescription only (many don’t require one).

Imo meds alone won’t do a ton of good, if you’re battling depression or constant blahness you should also be trying to steadily make improvements in your habits and life situation. When you are not feeling too down try to make a list of things that might make daily life more pleasant and try to work some of that stuff into life. Things like sitting in the sun or watching the sky aren’t too trivial. If nothing sounds pleasant (because depression) imo you have to go the regimented route where you add things to your life that you think would improve anyone’s situation like eating healthy, exercising regularly, and picking up a new hobby.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I don't know about that kind of medicine, but resolve your repressed anger and depression will disappear.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

but resolve your repressed anger

how to do that?

[–] Shou 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Check out Dr. K on youtube. HealthygamerGG is a channel ran by a psychiatrist that focusses on educating men and their mental health problems. It's not a replacement for therapy, it may help you in the right direction.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

Thanks, I will check that out.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Sorry for seeing the comments now, but it's never too late hopefully.

Therapy helped me. Looking back first important step was noticing that I am angry. It is strange how hidden and unrecognizable anger can be.

Second part is discovering why I was angry. As soon as we discover why are we angry, we stop being angry. When ai asked my shrink how does that work, he said "I don't know, but it works". And it really does.

Now when someone says "I am angery and I know why I am angre" I am sure they have no idea.

And I haven't found other way to resolve that, than psychoanalysis as therapy.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I don't feel angry, all I could feel is hopelessness about the future. I have no plans, no job and my girlfriend is going to break up with me but I don't know when exactly she will and I don't even have a clue what is the reason. I don't hate anybody, on the other side I just don't feel loving anyone, especially me. I wish I could have wings and fly across somewhere. That should clear my mind.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Someone I think on mander.xyz was saying that regular 90-second cold showers seemed anecdotally to be maybe competitive with medication in terms of how well it combatted depression

[–] Witchfire 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

A certain fun guy is really nice for this, but start small

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)
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[–] theywilleatthestars 0 points 11 months ago

Depends on whether you live somewhere with legal weed

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