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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.

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[โ€“] TotallynotJessica 16 points 5 months ago (2 children)

I'm not stupid, but I don't want to be seen as smart. I try to be an innocent uwu smol bean, but I'm not ignorant or naive. I like coming across as nothreatening, not because I want to trick anyone or attack when they least expect, but because I want to avoid conflict. I don't like making people upset. I don't want to hurt people. I don't want to be seen as a challenger for some social position that I don't want. I want to be a sweet lil kitten, so I come across as foolish or unintelligent to help support that image. I don't want to be at the mercy of others, but I don't want others to be at my mercy either. I just want to be loving and sweet because it feels good to make other people feel better.

It might be a gender conforming thing, but it's also one of the few things I've always known about myself. I haven't needed to justify being good to others, because I simply enjoy it. Some people have always known they were trans/gay, but I didn't. Instead, I've always known I wanted good for people.

I play healer in team games, I want to support more than lead, but I'm often expected to be in charge when I come across as competent and capable. I become good at things so I'm helpful to my team, but I risk becoming the person in charge if I nerd out too much. Can't I just be a cute team pet that also contributes without being exploited? I want to be submissive and harmless, but I don't want to be useless or not contribute, but I don't want to be taken advantage of and abused. I can't seem to balance all these things at once ๐Ÿ˜ญ