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300 days sober today. I was a Binge Drinker (self.stopdrinking)
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Just realized today I am 300 days sober!

My wife and son have been away looking at colleges and they come back tonight. I have to pick them up at the airport at 11:30 at night. In the past this would have been a problem for me because it would soon trigger a binge.

I'd be able to be sober to pick them up, but in a day or two I'd end up drinking way too much and be undeniably drunk. I could always go a few days without drinking, but soon enough I'd hit a cliff and end up black out drunk.

Sometimes I'd drink every day for weeks and hold it together, but soon enough I'd go way overboard. This would cause such a mess with my wife and family as I'm a very obnoxious person when I'm blacked out.

I never figured out why I binged. The psychology of it has to this day escaped me, but what I did figure out was that it would always, eventually, happen and the only way to prevent that was to stop drinking.

I will not drink today and I know why I won't.

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[–] ColoradoBoy 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Awesome, congratulations. A friend of mine who would binge described it this way: you can choose whether you want to dance with the gorilla or not, but the gorilla chooses when you stop. Except he didn’t say, “dance with.”

[–] Spacebar 3 points 1 year ago

First you take a drink, then the drink takes a drink, then the drink takes you