this post was submitted on 07 Jul 2023
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This is a place to motivate each other to control or stop drinking. It is also a place for non drinkers to discuss and share.

We welcome anyone who wishes to join in by asking for advice, sharing our experiences and stories, or just encouraging someone who is trying to quit or cut down.

Please post only when sober; you’re welcome to read in the meanwhile.

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We may be anonymous strangers on the internet, but we have one thing in common. We may be a world apart, but we're here together!

Welcome to the 24 hour pledge!

I'm pledging myself to not drinking today, and invite you to do the same.

Maybe you're new to /r/stopdrinking and have a hard time deciding what to do next. Maybe you're like me and feel you need a daily commitment or maybe you've been sober for a long time and want to inspire others.

It doesn't matter if you're still hung over from a three day bender or been sober for years, if you just woke up or have already completed a sober day. For the next 24 hours, lets not drink alcohol!


Parenting. In my last marriage I had three step kids but only every other weekend so I could “hide it”. I certainly did not wake up on time most weekends though. Fast forward to now, one of the reasons something “clicked” in my head was getting the news that I needed to take custody of my niece. Full time. By myself. She got a hold of her parents methodone treatment thinking it was a regular bottle of water and nearly died at 8 years old. This ball got rolling around the same time that I was realizing I had a problem, but every time I tried to stop for a day, I would detox the next. I was in that vicious cycle of day ones trying to get to day 4. But I couldn’t stay in bed all day weekends with her around. I couldn’t sleep in when she had to go to school. I couldn’t let her cycle of disappointment and foster homes continue. I had to relearn how to handle stress without alcohol again. And I had to learn to believe in myself again. One day at a time.

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[–] Zerlyna 2 points 1 year ago