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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted, clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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When you are on a videocall do you also keep looking at your own thumbnail video? (self.showerthoughts)

submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by netvor to c/showerthoughts

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When I speak, unless I'm sharing the screen I always keep looking at myself. It's kind of strange -- it clearly does not match a real-world conversation, but somehow I can't help it.

Edit: More context -- I'm wondering if others have it, if this is something that can be explained by some "brain" thing, and also how does it affect the conversation.

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[–] dexa_scantron 7 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Yep. Everybody does. Watch where their eyes are pointing, you can tell. I hide the window on apps that let me (or un-maximize the window and slide it off the screen a bit if I'm on one side).

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I am not a child. I move my frame dead center so I never drift.

This is at minimum my second rodeo

[–] netvor 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

From where their eyes are pointing I can only tell whether or not they're looking at the camera, but if they are looking elsewhere, I have no way of knowing if that other place is my face or theirs or anything else (even outside scope of the talk -- it could be a bug crawling on their desk for all I know).

[–] dexa_scantron 1 points 10 months ago

If they're consistently looking down and to the right (for most apps) and not scanning/reading, they're probably looking at their own video. I've certainly noticed it.