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[–] saltesc 43 points 7 months ago (2 children)

The honest one. And if that doesn't go down well, get the hell out of there. Just being asked is already a massive red flag and I doubt things would be lasting much longer from my side of things.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, I don't think being asked is a problem in the context of conversation but if it's a trap kinda question then you need to be talking about her insecurity not her hot friends

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

Actually you just need to be giving completely honest answers. If she can just handle them without issue then she doesn’t have much insecurity, just curiosity.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 months ago

Seriously. My wife asks me if random people are objectively attractive or hot or whatever all the time, it's basically just conversation fluff. It doesn't matter how I answer because she isn't jealous or anything, again, just conversation fluff.

Well, sometimes it matters if I say, "no that person is really weird looking" and she's like, "whaaaat why?". But then it's just funny.