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ADHD Women Community Check-In Mar 17-23: How Are You Doing? (lemmy.world)

submitted 8 months ago by ickplant to c/adhdwomen

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I was going to post this somewhere else but this is a better fit I think..

Over the last two days, as a birthday gift to myself, I scratched my “two year move itch” in which the poverty of my history makes me want to relocate every 2 years on average.

I’ve owned a place for over a decade now, so to scratch my poverty move itch, I change around my setup. I can’t really go anywhere but I have a few rooms and I can move things around a bit.

So I bought myself a new bed frame. One that fits the mattress better and also keeps my cats out from under it, looks nice.. whole nine. But I had to move the entire room around to make it work. It was a 6 hour job and because adhd turned into a whole weekend.

And I’m super not upset. Everything about how it went was what I expect in my life so I gave myself a whole weekend to do it and it took that and I was right. And that feels good. I deep cleaned the room as I moved everything around, and having one fully clean room is a great launch point for cleaning everything else! (Someday!)

[–] ickplant 5 points 8 months ago (1 children)

That’s amazing, good for you! Having one clean room can be magical and so motivational to clean more. I love how you got creative about not being able to move and got a new piece of furniture instead. I’m admiring your mindset and positivity!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

😅 that’s very flattering but it’s just a lifetime of knowing myself..

I was dx adhd at 5, medicated much too heavily until 13 (my current dose is half of my dose when I was half my present weight), when I removed myself to try working my own way through stuff.. served military and got a college degree. Now in my mid 30s I’m a disaster! I got rediagnosed and remedicated. I have a 9 month supply because I don’t actually take it except when I need to do -one thing- and then it’s magic. For a day.. It’s way too intense for daily use for me though.

I’ve always known I had different needs and maybe that makes it easier for me to work with them? I have so many things I want to do so if I come even close that’s a win.