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If you have problems with your team members you should being it up with your manager. But don't just tell them the problem and expect them to come up with a solution.
Documentation on when events happen and how you believe a change in attitude will make the org a better place to work will get a far more favourable response.
Now if you talk with your manager and nothing changes, then look for a new job and on your HR exit interview explicitly say why you are leaving.
They need to find a witness. Otherwise it’s a he said, she said issue that can’t be confirmed as harassment.
HR takes a different tact when a person starts to sight harassment from contemporaneous notes.