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I'd be happy to donate, but there's not an anonymous way to do it. Before a donation, you need to have 3 councilling sessions, health checks (fine) and sign a form saying that the kid can contact you at 18. Too many hoops to jump through for no personal gain. If I could just donate healthy, deidentified sperm I would. It's even worse for women donating eggs.
Unfortunately, given that it's 2023 and DNA testing exists, you're never going to be able to donate deidentified sperm. It's possible for the kid to identify their donor without the donor having input, these days. Better for donors to be aware of this going in, I think.