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Another night, another fight. I'm almost 100% certain this one wasn't my fault.
Fellow lemmyers (Lemmings?), who the hell do I talk to about problems in my relationship? I can't talk to her about it, because it seems to start fights the second I bring a concern up, and I can't afford therapy right now. I don't want to drag a friend or a coworker into this shit.
To preface, breaking up is not on the table for a fucktonne of different reasons. I believe she will get better, she's just really stressed lately.
My partner and I used to do the "another night, another fight" until I realised the immense stress both of us were under. Not saying where to lay blame, but I changed jobs, she also moved into different industry and haven't seen the same levels of hostility.